“The 'morality of compromise' sounds contradictory. Compromise is usually a sign of weakness, or an admission of defeat. Strong men don't compromise, it is said, and principles should never be compromised.”Such things just seems good to say and listen as long as you haven't compromised. Every one is compromising somewhere but not all compromises are equal. Some people compromise to gain profit, some compromise when they have no way, Some compromise only because it is difficult for them to think about solution. Such people mostly just weep or go into zhombie state. The people who go into zhombie state mostly live in the city of dreams. The only way to come out of it is that this is to start realizing things from scratch. Start understanding things from zero and then you will realize God(in my opinion ALLAH Almighty) , and then the other things will be back quickly. But it is important that during this you shouldnot compromise on truth.
However these are not the only people who compromise, some time people compromise to avoid bloodshed, and some time, some time compromise only to avoid any sort of extreme decision that can hurt someone. It is said that one should not compromise in relations, family, friends and love e.t.c. but this is not truth (atleast for today), nowadays relations are here because of compromises. So Compromise has become a relation and relation is compromise. However it can differ that who compromise. One of my employer says that "whenever one person is angry other should avoid anger". So you can try this rule if you want to keep some relation long but not life time pleasant. Life time pleasant relations based on truth and reality not compromises because for pleasant relation both should be able to speak and share anger too instead of compromises..
This doesn't mean that compromise is a bad thing, it actually depends on that what you want to have. When I came to Lahore, in start I was a bit more strict person and didn't compromise on rules . Whenever I thought that the employers are doing some thing wrong , In start in such cases, I just left job. However now I am a changed person now I compromise on some small things and some time compromise on big decisions. This is the part of life. Actually if you want to have every one near you, any relation very truthful, sincere and honest then may be compromise will not be a good choice. However if you are the person who think that there are not always the sincerity and trust required in each and every relation then yes compromise is a good thing. But such people need not to trust other people very much.
Except all the above compromise is a good thing to remove your ego while comprimising on each and every thing is really a bad thing. This is just my opinion, your can be different so kindly please tell me what you think? Yes you can tell me by commenting under this post.
