Salam every one,
We all say , we love our parents , we love our parents because they brought us to this level. Sorry, I said some thing wrong. Not all but most of us says we love our parents. But do we really love them? Here love means the likeness, emotions, care as for our own selves, our kids. Here I said our own selves because yes we are mostly selfish. When we show respect to our parents, then do we ever think that it is what they deserved but mostly we do this because it make us good. We respect them saying if we will take care of them then one day our kids will take care of us. Correct, but isn't it again more selfishness , we are actually again thinking for ourselves. Can't we think that this is their right, this is what my duty is, this is what they deserve? this is what that gives me happiness and mind peace? Because these are the people who give me all that what they can? No doubt it is for all those parents who give their kids the most important thing, the right teachings and education because this is all belongs to humanity.
We all our humans then why we forget that every humans deserve love, care . Why we forget that if some thing is bad for our family then this is bad for others. May be because we choose double standards. So these double standards enters in the lives of children. They start choosing double standards. And one day these kids grow and start choosing double standards in friendship, justice and then one day double standards for love for their parents.
We don't like if some one say a single word to our parents while we even do much bad with them. We fight with others for our parents whether it is our own parents fault but on the other hand we misbehave much more with our parents whether it is our own fault. We can fight for them but can't take care of them. We prefer them over justice but not over our will. In fact, fighting with others, saying lies for some one is easy than really caring them and true emotions. It is because we actually fight for our respect we lie for ourselves not them. When at childhood we go on wrong path, they took us on right path then why we can't take them to right way. We move with them on wrong way saying them right but don't obey them when they are against our will whether they are right. So we again choose double standards.
So where these double standards come from? From our own lives , from our selves. Why we try to found some thing on our own and when we find it in Islam we don't care of it , if we take care of it we go far away from equality while Islam is the religion which gave the solution of many problem and most of the time it gave the solution in truth,equality and justice. In fact, equality is the thing that can remove double standards and you will know how to live, how to think and how to love even with your parents.
Keep equality , avoid discriminations to avoid differences/ misunderstanding in hearts (translation of Hadeeth Pak of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.) , please provide better translation if you can )
We all say , we love our parents , we love our parents because they brought us to this level. Sorry, I said some thing wrong. Not all but most of us says we love our parents. But do we really love them? Here love means the likeness, emotions, care as for our own selves, our kids. Here I said our own selves because yes we are mostly selfish. When we show respect to our parents, then do we ever think that it is what they deserved but mostly we do this because it make us good. We respect them saying if we will take care of them then one day our kids will take care of us. Correct, but isn't it again more selfishness , we are actually again thinking for ourselves. Can't we think that this is their right, this is what my duty is, this is what they deserve? this is what that gives me happiness and mind peace? Because these are the people who give me all that what they can? No doubt it is for all those parents who give their kids the most important thing, the right teachings and education because this is all belongs to humanity.
We all our humans then why we forget that every humans deserve love, care . Why we forget that if some thing is bad for our family then this is bad for others. May be because we choose double standards. So these double standards enters in the lives of children. They start choosing double standards. And one day these kids grow and start choosing double standards in friendship, justice and then one day double standards for love for their parents.
We don't like if some one say a single word to our parents while we even do much bad with them. We fight with others for our parents whether it is our own parents fault but on the other hand we misbehave much more with our parents whether it is our own fault. We can fight for them but can't take care of them. We prefer them over justice but not over our will. In fact, fighting with others, saying lies for some one is easy than really caring them and true emotions. It is because we actually fight for our respect we lie for ourselves not them. When at childhood we go on wrong path, they took us on right path then why we can't take them to right way. We move with them on wrong way saying them right but don't obey them when they are against our will whether they are right. So we again choose double standards.
So where these double standards come from? From our own lives , from our selves. Why we try to found some thing on our own and when we find it in Islam we don't care of it , if we take care of it we go far away from equality while Islam is the religion which gave the solution of many problem and most of the time it gave the solution in truth,equality and justice. In fact, equality is the thing that can remove double standards and you will know how to live, how to think and how to love even with your parents.
Keep equality , avoid discriminations to avoid differences/ misunderstanding in hearts (translation of Hadeeth Pak of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.) , please provide better translation if you can )
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